Stressed about future

Stress Free Childhood

Anita was seething with anger,

She called Harsh inside and made him sit in front of her and demanded ‘How did this happen?’ What were you doing? I focus all my attention and energy on you and this is what I get in return? How can you be so casual about all this? Don’t you know your future depends on it?

She volleyed a barrage of such questions to which Harsh, who was all of seven, had no answer. Her voice was a clear indicator of her temper and that itself was enough to scare an already stressed Harsh. He couldn’t really understand much of what his mother was saying, but he felt it was wise to keep quiet. All he understood was that he had done something terrible.

She continued admonishing him for the next half an hour “Next time I want to see an A+ in every subject. How will you be a brilliant engineer if you score less?” He obediently nodded his head. You can go to play now, Anita announced. Harsh felt sad and stressed, but he didn’t know how to react.

Anita had been an intelligent and a capable woman, but sadly her family did not find her intelligence worth nurturing and preferred to marry her off instead. Now this frustrated mother looked for recognition through her son. She wanted him to realize all her unfulfilled ambitions.

Sadly, what she didn’t realize is all he wanted was love and not being saddled with her ambitions.

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9 thoughts on “Stressed about future

    ashwinimrinalbhagat

    (April 22, 2017 - 11:37 am)

    Cant agree more with you … Its just the love they look for ..
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    Barbara In Caneyhead

    (April 23, 2017 - 12:24 am)

    You made a great point: parents cannot live their life through their child’s. We each are individuals. They need our love, encouragement, understanding and support.
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    imaginativeworks

    (April 23, 2017 - 3:17 am)

    Sort of a sad cycle and a powerful one too. Nicely written, thanks for sharing.

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      nehagpatwardhan

      (April 24, 2017 - 5:03 pm)

      So very true. Something that we prefer pushing under the rug instead of discussing about it in the open

    ANITA SABAT

    (April 23, 2017 - 4:18 pm)

    Poor Harsh. Sad for all the kids who suffer so.
    Hope parents realize & not burden the young minds. Let their creativity & interests be given importance.

      nehagpatwardhan

      (April 24, 2017 - 5:00 pm)

      True! More and more parents are pushing their children to be robots than humans, conviniently forgetting their playful childhood

    Mrs.Dash

    (April 24, 2017 - 4:00 pm)

    Its a sad story.

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    Pikakshi

    (April 24, 2017 - 9:58 pm)

    This is so typical of our societies. Poor Harsh and so many other kids who are forced to run in the rat race since very early in their lives.

    Social stigmas are a bane for our societies. Lets not give in.

    Regards,
    Pikakshi
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      nehagpatwardhan

      (April 24, 2017 - 9:59 pm)

      Absolutely pikakshi. We don’t realize the effects till it’s too late and that is scary.

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