http://www.chezlucas.fr/?rtywwew=comment-flirter-par-sms-wikihow&863=b9 I believe the Valentine’s Day has run its prime and in today’s world it has lost its meaning! Now if you are a die-hard Sharukh Khan fan or someone who has lived and enjoyed the prime of Valentine’s Day hoopla, around the 90’s you would be shaking your head vigorously and even consider me to be a fool, for not believing in the true magic of love and et.all but before you get into all that, let me present my case.
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see As a teenager of the 90’s I have seen this phenomenon called Valentine’s Day turn into a national festival backed by sheer marketing genius. India is known to be all accommodative, especially if it is anything to do with festivals! Valentine’s Day marketing blitz was accepted with the same love and affection that we endorse any other festival with and it quickly became an important day, to be marked in the calendars much to the dismay of our parents.
http://specialolympics.es/?erimeri=opciones-binarias-en-pesos-mexicanos&c4d=a1 Soon there were fests and days that were celebrated around Valentine’s day and Feb was collectively known as college fun fest days. Soon after that many known unknown days like Chocolate Day, Rose Day, Teddy day and god knows what not day followed! The popularity was such that fringe outfits and parties, decided to cash in on its popularity by banning it and going on rampage against it!
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enter Now, as I didn’t fall in the popular girl’s category, I had much more time and leisure to study this marketing gimmick than be bogged down by the affection and attention that boys thought was perfect to be showered around this month.
source site I call this a great marketing strategy for the simple reason that the time was right for the kind of romance that Valentine’s Day stands for! You had movies that showcased love as all empowering and something that will give you a happily ever after, stolen kisses and secret meets were considered revolutionary and even enough to show and prove that they loved each other, parents opposition was enough to be the basis for a full length movie and words like live-in, sexting, Facebook and what’s app were unheard of!
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The historic reference of Valentine’s day was very close to the 90’s idea of romance. There was love, longing and the expectations were few, but today that’s hardly the case.
Today being in love is not all consuming. You can be in love with multiple people, your work or even with yourself! There is no concept of ‘waiting for the one’ Today, love is seen for what it basically is – a chemical reaction in the brain. It focuses on what you experience rather than believe in the illusion that marketing fed you over the years! I mean seriously – Does anyone believe in dialogues like ‘ Use dekhte hi violin bajane lagte hai!’
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While it is a relief that people are accepting love in a more realistic term rather than putting it on a pedestal, it is also lacking the warmth that the whole ‘love’ aura exuded.
Today, what I see is a lack in commitment. Any relation starts with the ‘If it doesn’t work out let’s move on’ concept. Any relationship needs work and if both come with the perspective of can easily move on, there is hardly going to be any relationship.
I am not sure if movies are a representation of today’s society or the society is being influenced by movies, but I am really not very happy looking at the way ‘love’ is portrayed. Love is a universal language, but I think Valentine’s Day needs a serious revamp! We need to add some feelings and a sense of commitment to a relationship.
http://talkinginthedark.com/wp-content/uploads/2014/04/Birthday-Mix-450x400.jpg What are your views? Have you seen a change in Valentine’s Day and it’s connect to the heart? Is it all just about giving gifts, adding selfies on Insta, FB lives and moving on the next day or is it about thoughtfulness, caring and sharing?