The realities of war – My boy Jack a painfully real poem

The other day I read an article about Rudyard Kipling, the celebrated author who spent his last few years in deep regret and remorse. The poem My Boy Jack, was written by him in these years. The poem is filled with regret and pain. It points to some glaring realities of war and makes us realize we are answerable to our future generation.

The poem and the situation is something that we need to see and understand in today’s times. The whole social media and world at large is busy taking sides, and asserting themselves economically, intellectually or with fire power and military poweress. World War 1 was just 100 years ago and we have a lot of lessons to learn from the Great War, but the biggest lesson is – ‘A war has only losers on both sides.’

A poem by Rudyard Kipling that talks about reality of war

Rudyard Kipling and Son John Kipling

Rudyard Kipling completely believed in the war and its reasons. He was a staunch patriot and when his son wished to join the army, Kipling senior completely supported it. So much so that when John failed to clear the medical examination, Rudyard used his influence to get his enlisted in the army.

John Kipling at 18

When the war began, John was only 17 and he died just after his 18th birthday. The young boy was first listed as missing in action after the Battle of Loos. Rudyard Kipling spent more than 3 years trying to find his missing son. It was much later and after a DNA test that his son’s grave was identified. His son was one of the 59,247 lives lost in the Battle of Loos.

After the death

After John was declared missing, Rudyard was filled with guilt and was completely disillusioned by the purpose of it all. He worked tirelessly to find his son and get some news about him. His anguish as a defeated father, a civilian and a survivor is seen in many of his war related works. While the poem ‘My Boy Jack’ talks about his pain; his writings like “If any question why we died, / Tell them, because our fathers lied,” portrays his guilt and angst.

Last thoughts

There must have been so many like John on both sides of the battlefield. Not everyone had the influence or power that Rudyard Kipling had. Many families might not have found any closure and many might have destroyed themselves while being burdened by guilt and regret.

Even today there are wars, occupations and militancy mushrooming around the world. After reading Rudyard Kipling’s words all I can think of – Was it/ Is it really worth it?

Leaving you with the heart wrenching poem… My boy Jack

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16 thoughts on “The realities of war – My boy Jack a painfully real poem

    Gita Madhu

    (November 28, 2018 - 7:54 am)

    I’m really deeply moved to find someone who is anti-war today. The world has forgotten the lessons of the two world wars and, today, around the world, people seem happy to beat the war drums. Our country, in particular, appears to find satisfaction in patriotism only against a background of hostility. The funny thing is that our two major mythologies are both powerful and hard hitting anti war stories.

    Your post is unique in its message and timely.

      nehagpatwardhan

      (November 28, 2018 - 6:37 pm)

      Thanks Gita for taking the time to read. I agree we seriously need a lesson or two in ill effects of war

    Deepa Rudraksha Jaisingh

    (November 28, 2018 - 6:38 pm)

    Best thing I read today, You could make a movie on this.
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    Snehalata Jain

    (November 29, 2018 - 2:53 pm)

    With War we loose everything and achieve nothing.Very touching article.
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    Ruchi Verma

    (November 30, 2018 - 6:25 am)

    It’s time to realize that war not only kill you but many other dreams emotions and lives …time to move ahead without wars

    Rima

    (November 30, 2018 - 5:16 pm)

    We should understand the fact that war is not the solution. It brings destruction only. Loved your content.
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    Dipika Singh

    (November 30, 2018 - 5:17 pm)

    Neha this post has a poignant truth about our ecosystem. How much we hate the word war but it has been forced on mankind due to some fuelling egos and selfish acts. The perspective of this post is different and pne must learn from this.
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    NIHARIKA CHATTERJEE

    (December 1, 2018 - 7:27 pm)

    Now this is something really different I read today… Glad you shared it… I am a big fan of Kiplings work… Is there is a movie on it… I would love to watch

    Neha Jain

    (December 1, 2018 - 11:44 pm)

    That’s such a heart touching share, war is never good for anyone . War not only destroy your from inside but affect inside too.
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    Nimmy

    (December 2, 2018 - 4:27 pm)

    I’m happy I read this post today. Yes, war isn’t a solution for anything in the world. Let peace sustain.

    Gunjan (tuggu.n.mommy)

    (December 2, 2018 - 4:56 pm)

    This is really a touching post. I too believe that a war has a lot of after effects on everybody’s life

    Princy

    (December 2, 2018 - 6:22 pm)

    its sad indeed that even after so much destruction due to wars, we still wnat to go to wars and cannot sit down and have a dialogue, very thoughtful, beautiful

    Milan

    (December 2, 2018 - 11:32 pm)

    Correct , no side gains from war. Wonder when will people understand this. Lovely post you shared Neha, food for thought.

    Kinshoo Agrawal

    (December 3, 2018 - 12:16 pm)

    The aftereffects of war are never pleasing for either sides. There is pain and loss both sides. World needs peace not war.

    Tina Basu

    (December 3, 2018 - 7:16 pm)

    War is never good for anyone – it never has and it never can be, only if people understood. This is a lovely post Neha.
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    Deborah Miranda

    (December 4, 2018 - 4:28 am)

    A very interesting read. The poem is so emotionally wrenching. The feelings of a parent are so real and comes out truly in this poem. Thanks for sharing.
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